Recently I read about the latest
affliction hitting Japanese tourists visiting the City of Light .
Doctors have dubbed this psychological condition “the Paris Syndrome”. It was
first reported in a medical journal in 2004. Each year it affects about a dozen
people. To date in 2006, the Japanese embassy in Paris has had to repatriate at least four of
its citizens suffering from this malady.
What is the Paris Syndrome?
Specifically, it is the psychological manifestation of disappointment when the
idealized expectation of Parisian beauty and grace meets the reality of urban
unruliness, rudeness and dirt. The Japanese have idealized Paris as a “dream city”, embodying all that
is beautiful, elegant and lovely. When confronted by street peddlers, crowded
restaurants, cranky clerks and other grimy realties of life in a city of
millions, the beautiful dream becomes a bit tarnished.
We all suffer the Paris Syndrome to
some extent (though generally not directly related to the metropolis
itself). We experience disillusion when our expectations of life meet with its
realities. The disappointment may come from a job, a relationship or a new pair
of shoes. We are daily bombarded with ads and images implying that the next
thing we acquire will be the key to securing the happiness that heretofore had
eluded us. And we believe. And when our shiny new car gets a dent, or a friend
forgets a date or a business deal falls through, we are hurt. And then we begin
the search again- for the one thing or person that will not disappoint.
Now, I have some good news, and some
bad news.
First the bad news. Nothing in this
world is perfect. Despite what you see on TV or read in magazine or hear on
your iPod, this world is not perfection. Reality (your reality and my reality)
is that we live in a broken world. One where friends disappoint, bodies get
sick, cars rust, toys break and sneakers go out of style. T’was always thus and
thus it shall ever be. Don’t get me wrong, there is a lot good and happy stuff
in the mix here as well—crisp fall days, the smell of warm chocolate chip
cookies, the satisfaction in a task well done, a hug from a child, hearing the
words, “I love you”. But there will always be some sorrowful disappointment
marring the situation. That’s the bummer of it all.
Here’s the good news. There is more
to life that what we see around us. This is an eternal truth that lives in each
of us—some of us deep down; bubbling up to the surface in others. Have you ever
walked through a canopy of trees and remarked on the dappled light shining
through? What about all the millions of stars you see on a dark, clear night?
Has a tiny baby ever curled her tiny fingers over your larger one? Isn’t this
amazing? This is God.
I believe in God, a big God. God who
created the universe: the light and the trees and the stars and the babies. God
who made sound and then gave man an incredible curiosity for it and the accompanying
creativity to make music. God who is diverse enough in his creation to make
slugs and peacocks. God who is involved enough in my life to give me freckles
and a sense of humor while giving another person a strong heart and arms long
enough to make a slam-dunk (something definitely not in the cards for me).
Well, how does this all fit
together? The disappointment of everyday life (the Paris Syndrome) and this
super-duper God? The connection is Hope. God is not oblivious to the grit and
grime of our day-to-day lives, the hurt and fear and disappointment. Not at
all. He sees it all and it bums Him out. This is not what He wants for us. He
wants happiness, satisfaction and fullness. Reality sucks because of the
choices we make, not because a fickle God is trying to zap us. If this were a
theology lesson we would now go into a long explanation of the Fallen Word,
Redemption, Resurrection and Reconciliation. That’s not my purpose here. To sum
it up, what we see around us is normal, though not necessarily right.
So leave with this: Big God is out
there and He has hope for you. That’s the Good News.
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